To keep myself motivated after I was diagnosed with cancer in 2008, I made a list of all the things that made life so worth fighting for. Nowhere on it were things like a fancy house, fast car, fat bank account or any other of the typical material measures of success our society puts so much emphasis on. Instead, it included things like:
- #22: Tobogganing
- #35: Building a fire
- #77:ย Sunsets
- #79: Skinny-dipping
- #46: Slow-dancing
- #40: Gin and tonics
- #107: My friends
- #58: A good fart
In short, my list overflowed with simple pleasures, amazing everyday experiences and the awesome people in my life.
Inspired by my list, the Simple Pleasures Project is all about reminding each other that the road to happiness isn’t paved in possessions. It’s about minding our MIBs–the small-but-amazing “Moments In Between” that make life so friggin’ special.
What’s on your list? Check out the video below for more of my story and add your own items to the growing collection in the comments section below.
A Near-Death origin story
what’s on your list?
Life is full of awesome simple pleasures and everyday experiences. Share yours in the comments below and let’s remind each other of life’s amazing non-material sources of joy and fulfillment!
13 responses to “The Simple Pleasures Project: What almost dying taught me about really living”
1. my two amazing children
2. long walks through the conservation area by my house
3. toasted tomato sandwiches
4. my momโs couch (perfect for napping!)
love this! here are afew of mineโฆ games night with the gang, roadtrips, getting lost in a good bookโฆ
Chocolate!!!!!
Library books, family, the ocean, old friends, new friends, laughing until my belly hurts, a clear, starry night, sunshine, rain, naps
1. My better half
2. The cats
3. Discovering new food
4. Biking
1. Watching a thunderstorm roll in.
2. Everything about my little girl, but especially her baby smell.
3. Reading a book at the beach.
4. Walks with my husband.
5. Visits home to see my family and friends.
1. Watching Clara learn something new
2. Watching the kids play on the street on a warm afternoon
3. Hot showers
4. Cuddling with the dogs after a long day
5. Beers on a patio
1. snuggling with puppies
2. the small of earth and rain
3. the sun shining through new spring leaves
4. seeing somebody discover something for the first time
5. looking into my nieceโs eyes
6. running
1. spending time with my boo!
2. star gazing
3. listening to the sound of waves/body of water
4. learning something new
5. walking/running with my dog on trails
Fresh cantelope
Strawberries
The smell of rain
Sleep
Family time
The feeling of sand sqishing through your toes
The sound of ocean waves crashing in
My dog
Dogs โ all dogs!
My family
I like holding hands with my hubby; reading to the grandchildren; hanging freshly laundered clothes on the line; wishing my 49 year old son, another Happy Birthday; sitting on the front porch; the comfort of my bed at the end of the day; waking up each morning; using nice sheets, wearing fancy lingerie; de-cluttering; dressing up, dressing down and family holidays. Life isnโt tied with a bow, but itโs still a gift.
The stars in Port Albert
The magical hours from 4:30 to 9:00 p.m. on Fridays
The smell of cedar and pine
Cycling
Camping
Hearing a great story
Jackie Chan kung-fu movies
Summer
Cabins and cottages
Red wine
[…] Over the years, the opportunities for public speaking have continued to grow. I was asked to be the MC at a friendโs wedding. I joined the Canadian Blood Servicesโ Speakers Bureau to share my cancer story with the community. I started doing book readings. And in 2013, I embarked on a cross-country speaking tour to promote my Simple Pleasures Project. […]